Dismantling Patriarchy in the World’s Religions

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It is true that you will find patriarchy in the Christian scriptures, but you’d be hard pressed to find Jesus promoting it. While we have few of the actual words of Jesus in the gospels, the picture that emerges is of someone who consistently breaks down barriers between insiders and outsiders, including the role of women.

My particular interest is language because I strongly believe that words matter. Words we use for ourselves and for the Divine matter. One of my primary calls to action is to use inclusive language for humankind and expansive language for the Divine. Expansive language simply means that while we don’t eliminate references to Father, Lord, King, etc., we do include a wide variety of other names, words, and images, too.

But as the timeline progresses in the writing of the books Christians call the NT, we can see patriarchy creeping back in and becoming institutionalized. And while many Christian denominations, including my own, do have women in leadership, there is still a lot of work to be done. We’ve made some progress with humanity. For example, one of the creeds we regularly use changed from speaking of Jesus as one “who for us men and our salvation, came down from heaven . . .” to who for us and our salvation . . . and hymns like “Good Christian MenRejoice” became “Good Christian FriendsRejoice.”

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We also do have to pay attention to how words are translated. For example: Junia, who was a woman who served with the apostle Paul. In his letter to the Romans, he commended both Junia and her co-worker Andronicus as “noted among the apostles.” In early Church history, Junia was widely accepted as a woman apostle, but in later translations an “s” was added to the end of her name, making it into the masculine form, Junias. Why? We don’t know. The Revised Standard Version editions read, “Junias (and compatriots) . . . “they are men of note among the apostles.” The inclusion of “they are men” is an addition to the original text. The New Revised Standard Version now reads, “Junia (and compatriots) . . . are prominent among the apostles.” However, a footnote by Junia reads: “or Junias.” 

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This is a perfect illustration of why we need to read biblical texts with a hermeneutics of suspicion. That simply means that we’re mindful that these texts have been largely shaped by male perspectives. So we’re curious about the origin of a text, as well as about the biases of modern interpreters, like those who added “they are men” to the original text. 

Phoebe is another example. In her case, the Greek word diakonos has traditionally been translated deaconess,while in other places the very same word is translated as minister. In the NRSV, the passage from Romans says: “I commend to you our sister Phoebe, a deacon* of the church” (in footnote: or minister). Better, but we’re not there yet.  

Language for the Divine has been even slower to change. For example, I recently came across an article, in which the author wrote: “I have found that the more I learn about God, His Word and theology which describes Him, the more I can love and worship Him, because now there is that much more to adore and be amazed by. If my ability to worship God is a fire, learning more about Him only adds more wood to the blaze. After all, if you really loved God, wouldn’t you want to learn as much about Him as possible?”

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At that point, I was gone. Don’t get me wrong. I’m not picking on this particular article. It was just the latest example that set me off. When the only pronouns we use for God in church and in our own speech are male, what image do we convey? When we use only “Father” to name the Divine, what are we promoting? It’s obvious; God is male. 

And the patriarchy that is inherent in much of our sacred texts is reinforced by our refusal to dismantle the patriarchy lodged in our church’s hymns, prayers, sermons, and everyday speech.

As a pastor who leads worship in a congregation almost every Sunday, I’m responsible for putting together the order of the service. That means choosing scripture texts, prayers, and other parts of the liturgy. Since liturgy literally means “work of the people,” shouldn’t the language of our liturgy include all the people?! The words we use really do matter. 

And along with “words matter” we have to also recognize that meanings and usage of words may change. For example, it was a major advance when we began saying “brothers and sisters” instead of just “brothers” when reading a passage. Then we had the audacity to reverse the order to “sisters and brothers.” Now, though, we’re learning from our LGBTQ+ friends that it would be better to avoid binary language. So, “siblings” is often used, or “friends,” or my favorite, “beloved.” 

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It’s a work in progress. But an important one as we continue to navigate the language of the church of the 21st century in the midst of the issues of our day. If we’re going to be truly committed to dismantling patriarchy by paying attention to language, then those on the ground planning, writing, and leading worship have to be much more intentional about it.

And even if you’re not responsible for creating the worship service, you can ask, suggest, demand that those who are to be more aware of the issues involved. 

Here’s what you can do:

Actions Items

  • Recognize the spiritual, emotional, and physical violence perpetrated by an entrenched patriarchal system, both within the Church and society in general
  • Recognize the misogyny of many of the early Church leaders and their ongoing legacy.
  • Encourage the reading of scripture with a “hermeneutic of suspicion” which questions traditional interpretations. 
  • Commit to the revision of theologies, teachings, liturgies, and practices to reflect the goodness of all people especially those who have been most impacted by patriarchy
  • Use inclusive language for humankind and expansive language for the Divine in church publications and worship materials.
  • Lift up the true stories of women in the Bible – like Phoebe and Junia.

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Images

http://womensordinationcampaign.org/timeline-links/2020/1/14/junia-a-woman-apostle-named-in-scripture 

https://www.catholicwomenpreach.org 

“God Is Male” by Nina Paley is made available under Creative Commons CC0 1.0 Universal Public Domain Dedication

 

 

 

Resources for Dismantling Patriarchy in Christianity

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This is my list for my presentation at the Parliament of the World’s Religions on October 18, 2021. It is by no means exhaustive. I’d love to hear your suggestions for additional resources.

Bible

The Inclusive Bible: the First Egalitarian Translation by Priests for Equality (2009)

The Divine Feminine Version of the New Testament is one of the initiatives of The Christian Godde Project. This new translation of the entire New Testament is now available online free of charge.https://godde.wordpress.com/the-divine-feminine-version-dfv-of-the-new-testament/

Women’s Bible Commentary, Carol A. Newsom, Sharon Ringe, Jacqueline E. Lapsley  (2012)

A Women’s Lectionary for the Whole Church by Wilda C. Gafney (2021)

An Inclusive Language Lectionary, Years A, B, and C, National Council of Churches (1986-88)

Psalms Anew in inclusive language, Nancy Schreck, OSF and Maureen Leach, OSF (1987)

Inclusive Language

Finding Words for Worship: A Guide for Leaders by Ruth Duck (1995)

Gender and the Name of God: the Trinitarian Baptismal Formula by Ruth Duck (1991)

The Gathering: A Womanist Church: Origins, Stories, Sermons, and Litanies by Irie Lynne Session, Kamilah Hall Sharp, and Jann Aldredge-Clanton

Taught by Love: Worship Resources for Year A. – Lavon Bayler
Led by Love – Worship Resources for Year B
Gathered by Love: Worship Resources for Year C 

Hymnody

Ruth Duck https://ruthduck.com

Carolyn Winfrey Gillette  https://www.carolynshymns.com

Jann Aldridge-Clanton  https://jannaldredgeclanton.com

Inclusive Hymns for Liberating Christians
Inclusive Hymns for Liberation, Peace, and Justice
Earth Transformed with Music: Inclusive Songs for Worship

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Good Websites

https://feminismandreligion.com

https://giftsinopenhands.wordpress.com

https://michelletorigian.com

The Junia Project.  https://juniaproject.com

Equity for Women in the Church https://equityforwomeninthechurch.org

Names of God – this is a list from Ruth Duck that I found somewhere, but can no longer find the source. I emailed her and got no response, so I’m assuming I can share it. And I continue to add to it.

“Awesome God And Holy Friend” 

“Breath Of Every Living Being” 

“Breath Within Our Breath” 

“Bond Of Peace”

“The Creator”

“Creator Of All Time And Space” 

“Creator Of Us All”

“Faithful God” 

“Fire Of Love” 

“Friend of Friends”

“Friend Of Outcasts” 

“Giver Of Life”

“Glorious Sun” 

“God Ever-Loving”

“God Of Grace”

“God Of Generations”

“God of Journey

Faithful Friend” 

“God Of Planet Moon And Sun” 

“God Of Wisdom”

“God The Loving Gardener”

“Great Spirit Of The Cosmic Whole” 

“Great Spirit And Source Of Birth” 

“Healer”

“Healing Light”

“Healing River of The Spirit” 

“Hokmah (Hebrew for wisdom)” 

“Holy Fire”

“Holy Gardener” 

“Holy of Holies” 

“Holy One” 

“Holy Wisdom”

“Lamp of Learning” 

“Life’s Fountain”

“Light of Every Nation” 

“Like a Midwife” 

“Listening God”

“Living Bread” 

“Living Christ” 

“Living Spirit” 

“Loving God”

“Loving Maker of The Earth” 

“Majestic Creator”

“The Maker” 

“The One”

How about these?

“One God” 

“Our God” 

“Parent”

“Renewing Spirit” 

“Saving Grace” 

“Saving Spirit” 

“She”

“Shepherd God” 

“Shepherd of My Soul”

“Sophia”(biblical Greek for wisdom) 

“Source of Unity”

“Spirit” 

“Spirit God” 

“Spirit-Guide”

“The Spirit of All Good” 

“Sun”

“Teacher”

“True Life of All” 

“Well-Spring of the Healing Spirit” 

“Wisdom/Sister Wisdom”

“Word Embodied 

Word of Life” 

“Colorful Creator”

“God of Mystery” 

“Harmony of Ages” 

“God of Listening Ear” 

“Author of Our Journey” 

“God of Near and Far”

“God of Truth and Beauty” 

“Poet of the Word.”

All-Generous Creativity

Transforming Intimacy 

Divine Creativity 

Creative Potency

Ground and Source of All Being 

Source of Radiance

First Poet 

Poet-Creator

Poet-Maker of all Things 

Aboriginal Beginner

Author of the Cosmic Script 

Primordial Ur-Mystery 

Ultimate Dispatcher

Great Initial Conditioner 

Ultimate Strange Attractor 

Unnamable One

O Most Honored Greening Force – Hildegard of Bingen

“Colorful Creator” 

“God of Mystery” 

“Harmony of Ages”

“Author of Our Journey” 

“Poet of the World”

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“Dismantling Patriarchy” Goes to the Parliament of the World’s Religions

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A Buddhist priest, a rabbi, a Lutheran pastor, a Sufi practitioner, and a Hindu activist walk into the Parliament of the World’s Religions. And that is no joke! We are five women from five religions who are committed to making the world a better place for women and girls. And we will present a workshop at the Parliament entitled “Dismantling Patriarchy in the World’s Religions”.

The Parliament is an online only event this year – which is sad because it’s such a wonderful experience of being with people from all over the world and from an awe-some array of religious traditions. But it’s also a blessing because we don’t have the expense of airfare, hotels, etc. And as we’ve learned from Zoom Church this past year+, it is possible to have a meaningful gathering online.

Here are our fabulous presenters:

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Sridevi Ramanathan presented on Hindu Goddesses at the 2015 Parliament of World Religions as part of the panel, “Diverse Voices of Women’s Spirituality.” She has also presented at the Association of the Study of Women and Mythology and Faith and Feminism conferences. She continues to participate in various interfaith events as a speaker, dancer and artist. 

For years, Sridevi has actively participated in programs and events that give power to girls and women including, “One Billion Rising” and “Take Back the Night.” She founded “Story Digs” through which she conducts talks and workshops based on her scholarly research of mythology and folklore. Sridevi is a founder and facilitator of the “Diversity Circle” at the Oakland Center for Spiritual Living. In addition, Sridevi is one of the women profiled in the book, “Birthing God: Women’s Experiences of the Divine.” 

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Rev. Elaine Donlin  is an ordained Jodo-Shinshu Buddhist priest and serves as BCSF Minister Assistant at Buddhist Church of San Francisco. She leads an innovative monthly Metta Gathering in Shin temples in San Francisco, Mill Valley and Sebastopol, CA. Elaine has been teaching the Essentials of Buddhism course since 2008 and helps guide the temple in social justice endeavors within the larger San Francisco community.

She serves as Buddhist Community Clergy for several SF Hospitals and  provides weekly Meditation and Buddhist teachings in the SF County Jails. She is a current Board member on the San Francisco Interfaith Council and is also a founding member of the BCSF LGBTQ+ group.

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Leili First, Ph.D., a student of Uwaiysi Sufism, is a long-time member of the International Association of Sufism and Sufi Women Organization.

She has given lectures on Sufism at colleges and universities and has been a presenter at the Annual Sufism Symposium in San Rafael, CA and at the Parliament of the World’s Religions.

Leili is a member of the program committee of the Building Bridges of Understanding series, a cooperative program between the IAS and Dominican University of California. She has published articles in the internationally-distributed journal, “Sufism: An Inquiry”. She has served on the Marin Interfaith Council, and as an SWO representative at the United Nations meeting of NGOs.

She holds a Ph.D. in Transformative Studies.

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Mychal Copeland is the rabbi at Congregation Sha’ar Zahav, a Jewish, LGBTQI-normative community in San Francisco. She was previously the Bay Area Director of InterfaithFamily (now 18Doors), and served for thirteen years as a university Rabbi, first at UCLA and later at Hillel at Stanford University.  Her book, Struggling in Good Faith: LGBTQI Inclusion from 13 American Religious Perspectives (SkyLight Paths, November 2015), grew out of her campus work.  

In 1995, she earned a Masters in Theological Studies and Secondary Teaching Credential from Harvard Divinity School, and a rabbinical degree from the Reconstructionist Rabbinical College in 2000. Mychal is the founder of a national Rosh Hodesh (new moon) project for teens, It’s a Girl Thing, that celebrates the monthly lunar cycle and strengthens teen girls’ self-esteem and spirituality with over 100 groups around the country. She co-wrote “Gender and Bible Studies” for the volume, Gender Stratification: Social Construction and Structural Accounts (Ed.Dana Vannoy, Roxbury Press, 2001). Mychal is a certified yoga instructor and fuses Jewish spirituality with movement in her yoga teaching. Her first children’s book is I Am the Tree of Life: My Jewish Yoga Book (Apples & Honey Press, m2020). Mychal is passionate about opening the doors of Judaism wider and leading people towards a profound spiritual and religious life that embraces all of their disparate identities.

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And me: I am a pastor in the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America (ELCA), serving a congregation in Burlingame, CA. I have been involved in interfaith activities both in Western New York and California. I served on the board of the Interfaith Center at the Presidio in San FranciscoIn and as the interim executive director. In 2005 I received my Doctor of Ministry degree from Pacific School of Religion in Berkeley. My special interest is intra-faith issues. My book, published in 2015, is “The INTRAfaith Conversation: How Do We Talk among Ourselves about INTERfaith Matters?” My website is https://intrafaithconversation.com.

I presented workshops at the Parliament of the World’s Religions in 2015 and 2018. I am also one of the women profiled in the book, “Birthing God: Women’s Experiences of the Divine.” 
    

We all We hope you’ll register for the Parliament and join in the ongoing conversation that we plan to continue until we dismantle the religious foundations of patriarchy!

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Another Action Item for Dismantling Patriarchy in the Church

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I am indebted to my colleague Pastor Dawn Hutchings from Holy Cross Lutheran Church in Newmarket, Ontario for an additional item for my presentation, “Dismantling the Religious Roots of Patriarchy in Christianity.” 

In her sermon for Advent 1, “Shady Ladies, Forgotten Stories, and Images of God: Casualties of Our Advent Lectionary,” she gives us permission to “tinker with the lectionary” in order to allow the women of our Bible stories speak. So, for instance, you could forego the focus on John the Baptist this Sunday in favor of Elizabeth and Mary. Her challenge to “Tinker Away! Tell the Stories!” has given me a new addition to my list of action items. 

Here’s the list I put together for the workshop at the Parliament of the World’s Religions: 

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And here’s the new one: 

  • Lift up the stories of our foremothers in our sacred texts – even when it means tinkering with the lectionary to do so. Consider taking a season like Advent to intentionally seek out and tell these stories. As Pastor Dawn challenges, “Let this Advent be different. Invite the women of the gospels onto the stage.”

Amen!

P.S. I’m happy to add more action items. Send me your ideas.